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How Do you Spend Your Time?

As we age, our perspective on life, particularly time, should evolve. How and with whom we invest our time should gain an even greater significance as we grow older. During my youth I spent many years engrossed in aimless pursuits that ultimately squandered away much valuable time. You live and you learn, and such is life. Now that I am approaching my fifties, my view of time has significantly shifted. I have gained a much greater sense of urgency to get things accomplished and how I spend my time is far more important to me today than it was in my youth. Achievements require skill, accomplishments demand effort, and success deserves celebration. All of these things require our time and focus. How we manage our time determines what can be achieved in the time that we have. Time management plays a pivotal role in achieving a well-rounded life, enabling us to attain the quality of life we all desire and deserve. Yet, we often underestimate the true value of time, sometimes spending it on things that neither serve nor contribute to the life we envision for ourselves. How do you spend your time? Let’s talk about it!

Reasons Why We Shouldn’t Waste Our Time

Pursuing one’s goals can be an arduous task, stressful even, and not fun. Success requires mastery of craft, and to master anything requires effort and time. It is important to engage in the actions we believe will bring us closer to achieving our goals and ambitions. Life is filled with countless distractions and temptations, many of which can lure us away from our most important tasks and priorities. Every moment you spend on less essential activities is time wasted and if done too often, can delay your progress, slow your success, and create a sense of regret down the road. Prioritize your time and be mindful of your objectives. Make choices that align with your long-term vision and values.


More Reasons Why We Shouldn’t Waste Our Time


Limited Resource: Time is a finite resource; unlike money or possessions, you can’t accumulate time. Once time is gone, you can’t get it back.


Delayed Goals: Wasting time not only hinders you from achieving your goals but it delays you also. You are your happiest self when you are living to your full potential.


Stress and Anxiety: Procrastination, and wasting time, can cause increased stress and anxiety due to the approaching or missed deadlines.


Impact on Relationships: Wasting time can also have negative effects on relationships if you choose unproductive activities over spending quality time with family and friends.


Regret: One of the biggest regrets in life is wasted time. Ask anybody.


Short Lifespan: Our time here is limited, point blank. Depending on our circumstances, age, health, destiny, tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us. Recognizing this can be a powerful catalyst in choosing to spend time more wisely.


Quality of Life: How we spend our time directly affects how well, or not so well, we live our lives. Wasting time can lead to stress, missed opportunities, and unfulfillment.


Check out this short video clip by “Mel Robbins” touching on today's topic:


Check out these great articles that offer insight on this week’s topic:

  1. Don’t Waste Your Time by Dr. Jim Taylor, Ph.D., The Power of Time

  2. The Ultimate Guide to Prioritization, Part 2: How To Decide What To Do... And Do It! by Ashley Janssen, Productivity Consultant, Writer, Speaker, Entrepreneur

  3. 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Time by Chris Bailey

Key Takeaways

Time provides us all with opportunities for growth and cherished moments. In using your time wisely, you in turn honor the goals and aspirations you set for yourself. Be mindful of your time to avoid common pitfalls like procrastination. Prioritize tasks and activities that align with your goals, and this will boost your productivity and give you a sense of fulfillment. Make each moment count, ensuring that you are moving closer to the life you want for yourself.


As always, my beautiful Tribe, remember to commit yourself daily to caring for and loving yourself, no matter what. We here at The Let’s Talk Tribe are rooting for your continued success. Please like, share, comment, and SUBSCRIBE!


Always With Love,

The Let's Talk Tribe Team






References:

  1. https://youtu.be/4x7MkLDGnu8?si=ooaGtTyII056uulH

  2. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-power-prime/201506/don-t-waste-your-time-it-s-precious

  3. https://ashleyjanssen.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-prioritization-part-2-how-to-decide-what-to-do-and-do-it/

  4. https://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/7-ways-make-better-use-your-time.html



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